Green Eyed Monster

BOO! No it’s not a real monster, it’s actually YOU being jealous.
Have you feel being it?

Jealousy is a mixed feeling of anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, and fear.

Anxiety is when you feel uncertain of something, it’s when you curled up in your bed, carpet, or anywhere and you have this significant mood of fear.

Anger, Loneliness and Hate is a three MESSED up personality cause no matter how hard you cry out loud the anger eats you up alive, loneliness gets worst (you feel so fcuking empty…) and hate? It’s either you hate feeling those, you hate yourself and you hate your partner for making you feel that way.

Fear? This isn’t just any phobias…We may all fear the insecurities that they give out.

So, what should one do to stop being jealous? This isn’t just a one-sided advice, this isn’t just for the people who are jealous this is also for the people who are making them feel it.

A STRONG COMMUNICATION could actually solve it. Why? Cause when one person is jealous they can’t usually think straight. And it’s up to their partners to clear it for them. You see, hidden mysteries can make someone think the worst, “Does he have any other girl?” “Is he in love with someone?” “Is he/she cheating on me?” —– many of us likes that our partner to be open, to be HONEST on what really has been going on with their lives.

But what if you two have a communication and yet the other person isn’t convinced?

Situation: (I’ll try not to mention their names :D)

Mr. F is single and a bit complicated status, he has a lot of girls, B,L,A,R,A and some girls that Ms. F didn’t have time to know about. While they we’re with common and close friends, Ms. F sees Mr. F’s mobile wallpaper with MC’s picture on it and still says “She’s not my girlfriend” claiming in not having any relationship with all those girl’s that he has been seeing.

The odd part was, B keeps on messaging him, alrighty, for a friend she seems to be so sweet… and FLIRT…(GTFO Bitch.)

They talked and finally Ms. F seems to be convinced that Mr. F doesn’t really have any new gfs, but why hide it? Couldn’t they just be honest and say it at least that they fall for someone so that the other person would stop thinking something bad.

Now what?

It’s a no win situation.

As well as using communication to resolve mysteries, communicate your feelings for your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. Tell him or her how you feel. Express your love. Show your affection.

http://www.tipsforsuccess.org/jealousy.htm

Last time, he sung over the phone, “I Go Crazy” Paul Davis, somehow I felt so sad, and worst I cried. But, a friend said, “How sure are you that the song was meant for you?” and it made me think, “she has a point there,” it could be for someone…

That’s why, last night when they we’re singing, it was his turn, he sung, “I’m a Believer” and my girl friend was laughing as she teases me, I smiled and said, “it’s not for me,” It took me a lot of effort to build up that courage and say those words without trembling…

…Next time I transformed in this green eyed monster, I’ll try not to have a fight with him…

Don’t HATE. Get EVEN. Lol.